我想抱怨一下~

读Voir 还是读 Vior
可是多人认为Vior, 所以 Vior 就是对的~

以前认为和朋友意见分歧并不怎样，
还是可以谈得很高兴因为并不论输赢。

可是最近遇到的朋友总是很好胜，
意见一旦不相同就会像打战一样，
以多论胜负或践踏令一方的意见。。。
又或则不悦得让一步：好啦~好啦~你对！这样让一切结束得更不愉快~
人也开始变得害怕表达意见。


你怎么那么奇怪~
那又是谁规定正常是该怎样的？（以多数来决定咯~）
唉..........................
 
我觉得啊~
提出自己意见的好处，总比攻击别人意见来得适当又不伤感情
我觉得啊~
人的性格千变万化，没办法把人看得透，不应该评论得那么肯定
我觉得啊~
每个人心中都有一把尺，不要用自己的尺去衡量别人
我觉得啊~
我融入不了你们那一套的开玩笑



朋友嘛~ 就是看透了你，还是喜欢你
朋友不会听信别人的说三道四，而不跟你做朋友
朋友啊，就是什么时候都撑你
朋友就是懒得跟你计较，就是想对你好


抱怨完以后，又得想想自己是不是如此这样一般。。。。
别人总会说：你自己也是一样吗~
当换个角色想的时候，之前自己抱怨过的，说过的，还得生吞进回肚子
要发泄又要想自己有没有错，
真是头痛，又矛盾~  
人格分裂是迟早的事情！



我最近买了 arsenal jersey, 翻版的. 本来想买MU的，没有了~~~~~~！！！
朋友1说：哇~~~~ 你买arsenal zomok!! Sohai team 来的~
朋友2说：哇！！Arsenal 送我都不要咯~
朋友3说：你买liao??? 买liao就不同讲。。。。Arsenal ok de，不过是以前~

问完评语过后，也改变不了什么~ 因为其他的没有Size，而且我只是买来穿睡觉的....xD

Oh yeah~!!! 我终于有一件 jersey 了!!!! 有一件 sohai team 的 jersey~ (^-^)b

Steve Jobs

在他离开的那一天，我才认识到这个名字......
也因为他的离开，很多有关他的事情，他说过的话，都不停地重复着被讨论，分享又再分享
看过了以后，我........真的很欣赏他的话！
本来对 Iphone 没兴趣的我，现在突然很喜欢了~ 我很想买 Iphone 4S.....

我要收集他的作品，还有他说过的话！ ^^

Steve Jobs 說過：「你的時間有限，所以不要為別人而活。不要被教條所限，不要活在別人的觀念裡。不要讓別人的意見左右自己內心的聲音。最重要的是，勇敢的去追隨自己的心靈和直覺。」

10 Golden Lessons From Steve Jobs

“I think we’re having fun. I think our customers really like our products. And we’re always trying to do better.”

- Steve Jobs

His accomplishments and character helped define a generation and change the world. He is co-founder of the fairytale company we now know as Apple Computers. And he is the visionary of the personal computers world that led the entire computer hardware and software industry to restructure itself.

This man with boundless energy and charisma is also a master of hype, hyperbole and the catchy phrase. And even when he’s trying to talk normally, brilliant verbiage comes tumbling out.

Here’s a selection of some of the most insanely great things he said, golden lessons to help you succeed in life, Jobs-style:

1. Steve Jobs said: “Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower.”

Innovation has no limits. The only limit is your imagination. It’s time for you to begin thinking out of the box. If you are involved in a growing industry, think of ways to become more efficient; more customer friendly; and easier to do business with. If you are involved in a shrinking industry – get out of it quick and change before you become obsolete; out of work; or out of business. And remember that procrastination is not an option here. Start innovating now!

2. Steve Jobs said: “Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren’t used to an environment where excellence is expected.”

There is no shortcut to excellence. You will have to make the commitment to make excellence your priority. Use your talents, abilities, and skills in the best way possible and get ahead of others by giving that little extra. Live by a higher standard and pay attention to the details that really do make the difference. Excellence is not difficult – simply decide right now to give it your best shot – and you will be amazed with what life gives you back.

3. Steve Jobs said: “The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.”

I’ve got it down to four words: “Do what you love.” Seek out an occupation that gives you a sense of meaning, direction and satisfaction in life. Having a sense of purpose and striving towards goals gives life meaning, direction and satisfaction. It not only contributes to health and longevity, but also makes you feel better in difficult times. Do you jump out of bed on Monday mornings and look forward to the work week? If the answer is ‘no’ keep looking, you’ll know when you find it.

4. Steve Jobs said: “You know, we don’t grow most of the food we eat. We wear clothes other people make. We speak a language that other people developed. We use a mathematics that other people evolved… I mean, we’re constantly taking things. It’s a wonderful, ecstatic feeling to create something that puts it back in the pool of human experience and knowledge.”

Live in a way that is ethically responsible. Try to make a difference in this world and contribute to the higher good. You’ll find it gives more meaning to your life and it’s a great antidote to boredom. There is always so much to be done. And talk to others about what you are doing. Don’t preach or be self-righteous, or fanatical about it, that just puts people off, but at the same time, don’t be shy about setting an example, and use opportunities that arise to let others know what you are doing.

5. Steve Jobs said: “There’s a phrase in Buddhism, ‘Beginner’s mind.’ It’s wonderful to have a beginner’s mind.”

It is the kind of mind that can see things as they are, which step by step and in a flash can realize the original nature of everything. Beginner’s mind is Zen practice in action. It is the mind that is innocent of preconceptions and expectations, judgments and prejudices. Think of beginner’s mind as the mind that faces life like a small child, full of curiosity and wonder and amazement.

6. Steve Jobs said: “We think basically you watch television to turn your brain off, and you work on your computer when you want to turn your brain on.”

Reams of academic studies over the decades have amply confirmed television’s pernicious mental and moral influences. And most TV watchers know that their habit is mind-numbing and wasteful, but still spend most of their time in front of that box. So turn your TV off and save some brain cells. But be cautious, you can turn your brain off by using a computer also. Try and have an intelligent conversation with someone who plays first person shooters for 8 hours a day. Or auto race games, or role-playing games.

7. Steve Jobs said: “I’m the only person I know that’s lost a quarter of a billion dollars in one year…. It’s very character-building.”

Don’t equate making mistakes with being a mistake. There is no such thing as a successful person who has not failed or made mistakes, there are successful people who made mistakes and changed their lives or performance in response to them, and so got it right the next time. They viewed mistakes as warnings rather than signs of hopeless inadequacy. Never making a mistake means never living life to the full.

8. Steve Jobs said: “I would trade all of my technology for an afternoon with Socrates.”

Over the last decade, numerous books featuring lessons from historical figures have appeared on the shelves of bookstores around the world. And Socrates stands with Leonardo da Vinci, Nicholas Copernicus, Charles Darwin and Albert Einstein as a beacon of inspiration for independent thinkers. But he came first. Cicero said of Socrates that, “He called philosophy down from the skies and into the lives of men.” So use Socrates’ principles in your life, your work, your learning, and your relationships. It’s not about Socrates, it’s really about you, and how you can bring more truth, beauty and goodness into your life everyday.

9. Steve Jobs said: “We’re here to put a dent in the universe. Otherwise why else even be here?”

Did you know that you have big things to accomplish in life? And did you know that those big things are getting rather dusty while you pour yourself another cup of coffee, and decide to mull things over rather than do them? We were all born with a gift to give in life, one which informs all of our desires, interests, passions and curiosities. This gift is, in fact, our purpose. And you don’t need permission to decide your own purpose. No boss, teacher, parent, priest or other authority can decide this for you. Just find that unique purpose.

10. Steve Jobs said: “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

Are you tired of living someone else’s dream? No doubt, its your life and you have every right to spend it in your own individual way without any hurdles or barriers from others. Give yourself a chance to nurture your creative qualities in a fear-free and pressure-free climate. Live a life that YOU choose and be your own boss.

Each lesson might be difficult to integrate into your life at first, but if you ease your way into each lesson, one at a time, you’ll notice an immediate improvement in your overall performance. So go ahead, give them a try.

 

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我 ——————
不爱出门，不爱参与旅行，却因为是你们所以我不同了。。。
忘了爱说废话，忘了喜欢顶嘴，忘了爱玩很多无聊游戏，忘了爱画画的那个我!
也因为你们——那个我。。回来了~

从不会—— 到学会
从不懂—— 到慢慢熟悉
从不能—— 到有能力去面对
真的在那里长大了不少。。。。在被呵护又不严厉的耐心教导下长大了。。是开心的~  =)
重点是减肥也是在那段期间成功的，足足瘦了4KG。。。人生的改变

包住啦，包载，包吃（office很多吃的咯，老板也常请吃），sport club 还有company trip, intern allowance RM700, 甚至到后来还给一辆公司车。。。。真是太好的一间公司了~

和你们在一起，去那里都很好玩，因为不会争执！大家都真的很合的来~
也不会开那些以玩弄或取笑别人的所谓玩笑~ 因为你们很懂得尊重别人，
我们有我们的幽默话题。。。真的是让大家都能打成一片的玩笑话题~
一大堆的照片。。。有很多很多我们的回忆
喜欢做工， 喜欢去上班，因为和你们一起最快乐~ 也是我在KL最开心的一段日子









我......................还可以再次拥有像那样的生活吗？ =(